Goddess Sydney: this work is all about embracing our idiosyncrasies

Sydney Jones studied a BA of Intersectional Feminism with an emphasis in Goddess Studies (SDSU), and a MFA of Creative Writing with an emphasis in fiction and screenwriting (NU).

Sydney is Goddess Sydney, a professional Dominatrix, she work real-time sessions, phone and text, as well as filming clips.

She is a woman born on October 13, 1980 in Cocoa Bach, Florida -and resides now in San Diego, California–; She is 5’9” tall, has darker brown hair (now dyed blonde) and green eyes.

I would say I am an ambitious woman, extremely passionate and always focused on multiple projects towards a mutual means. As a dominatrix, I am stern and sadistic, and also sensual and compassionate.

It just depends how I feel and how My submissive and I relate. I adore fine art and culture; opera, symphony, theatre, ballet, art museums and live exhibits, etc.

I need to be free and live My life in a way that serves me best. I love being spoiled and spoil My loved ones as much as they spoil me.

I adore animals and nature and being outdoors, be it nature or mountains. I love to learn and I am always thirsting for more knowledge.

I would say I am an ambitious woman, extremely passionate and always focused on multiple projects towards a mutual means.

As a dominatrix, I am stern and sadistic, and also sensual and compassionate. It just depends how I feel and how My submissive and I relate.

I adore fine art and culture; opera, symphony, theatre, ballet, art museums and live exhibits, etc.

I need to be free and live My life in a way that serves me best. I love being spoiled and spoil My loved ones as much as they spoil me.

I adore animals and nature and being outdoors, be it nature or mountains. I love to learn and I am always thirsting for more knowledge.

I have been pretty fortunate to live on both the eastern and western coasts of the United States
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I currently reside in California, and much prefer it to Florida. They’re both quite different and while both allow access to the ocean, only California has the more impressive geological terrain. 

Through your experience, what does your work means as a professional dominatrix, sex educator? To Me, this work is all about embracing our idiosyncrasies and providing space to see people as they truly are.

Our country has such strict moral ideals that we often succumb to in order to succeed in a “normal life”, that we crave to explore some of those parts of us that we think are weird. Especially in regards to power exchange, sensuality, and the experiences of pain and pleasure.

I provide a safe space for people to explore and learn about some of the more seemingly taboo aspects of our identities and psyche.

I think it is ultimately very important to consensually explore our urges that we may consider strange or abnormal because often it is not that strange at all…

And it feels really good to be seen and know it’s okay to enjoy some of the things you’ve been too afraid to try, forever.

I love power exchange, immensely. I adore consensually wielding my power over an anxious or eager submissive/bottom and training them, manipulating them, and teaching them how to be better for their Goddess and for their life and their place in the world.

Sometimes I just destroy their egos because a lot of my clients really need that. Their jobs are big power and stressful and they just want that power wholly stripped and I love taking their power, because I can and they crave it. It’s such a cerebral turn on… way better than sex in my opinion.

Inspiration: I am inspired by more things every day, this planet is filled with everyday miracles and continuous creation and destruction of every kind.

As far as my profession goes, I would say I am inspired by the submissive’s who truly work to please me and submit to my desire.

It’s such a great gift to exchange that power and energy. It’s such a vulnerable place to be in and I am honored and inspired that they trust Me so deeply
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How do you feel until now about your work achievements? I feel very humbled by them and honored that so many would want to interview me, work with me, submit to me, spoil and cherish me.

It’s an amazing feeling, truly a high like no other. It inspires me to be better everyday and to work that much harder to see how I can continue to improve. 

What’s on your mind when you’re shooting/creating content, managing your sites and sessioning? Honestly, it really depends what I’m doing… but most often I just slide into top space and whatever the vehicle or kink that I am using as a focal point just brings everything together.

During live sessions I heavily rely on my intuition, and my extensive knowledge of anatomy and physiology. When I am making clips, I come up with the focus of the clip and then just basically wing it.

I love improv and after doing this for so long, I know where I want to end up with the clip and just like Edgar Allan Poe recognized, knowing where you will end allows for greater freedom to create the rest of the story.

What do you think about platforms like Niteflirt, iWantClips, ManyVids, AVN Stars, that let you have a direct income/control and working as an independent creator? I love them!

It is such a huge blessing that independent creators have that option to do what they want, how they want it, and explore their own fantasies as well as create one of a kind clips and customs clips for clients who want them.

I am on Niteflirt, SextPanther, IWantPhone/IWantClips, Clips4Sale, AVNStars, manyVids, MyFreeCams, CamModelDirectory and I get to do mostly as I desire within the guidelines set at each site.

Each site has a different contract percent they pay you but they are all at least 60% and that is how it should be.

What are your current projects? I am currently working on several short fiction stories to pitch, a full length fiction novel (it’s about sex workers), I post in my blog a couple times a week (la femdom diabolique on blogspot), and I create 3-6 clips a week.

I also have about 4 photo shoots this month coming up and a mini film I’ll be shooting with a friend so I am very excited for it all.



A day in your life: a day in my life is busy! I work out, take text/phone domination sessions, I take care of office tasks, meditate, eft tapping, pranayama or mantra work, usually go for a walk or get outside somehow, work on my stories/book, read, probably watch an episode of something, and almost always end the day with a soak in the tub.

During the week, I do a mini photo shoot for my AVN subscribers, film clips two separate days, get vitamin injections, write a couple blog posts, try to visit friends and talk to family. I also love to cook healthy so I’m always trying out new recipes!

Your experience during 2020 quarantine due COVID-19: it’s definitely been very different than it ever has been in my life.

Luckily I enjoy alone time and as a result have really hyper focused on my goals and dreams for the time ahead. It has been challenging in regards to loss and drastic changes in society, but I think a lot of the things we’re dealing with have been a long time coming.

I try to do my best to stay focused on the fact that I have the ability to choose how I respond to things and try to dedicate the merit of my spiritual practices to the healing of the world and all in it. 

Hobbies, dreams, fears; strenghts and weakness that you want to share: I have danced since I was 3 years old, through college and into the professional arena, so I would say that’s my #1 hobby.

I’ve danced; ballet, classical and rhythm tap, jazz, lyrical, modern, hip hop, cabaret belly dance and tribal style belly dance, and loved them all.

A weakness of mine is that I often give people too much credit, thinking everyone is a s forthright and honest as I am, and it always bites me in the ass! But I’m learning, through extensive trial and error, lol.

Big turn ons are: brains/wealth/excellent taste/compassionate heart. Big turn offs are: bad teeth/people who don’t express or respect boundaries/ dishonest people.

Something that makes you happy/something that makes you angry: nature/animals makes me happy and seeing people disrespecting them makes me angry.



Future: I see my self teaching more classes/workshops, publishing multiple books, and taking sessions/ being a guide to normalizing kinky exploration for some time to come.

A quote that talks about you, it can be with your own words: There ain’t no devil that’s just god when he’s drunk. –Tom Waits.

What’s the story of your domme name? I got Sydney from a character on this 90s teen soap called “Swans Crossing”.

The actress who played her was Sarah Michelle Geller and she was a super stuck up conniving rich bitch. She was always fucking people over and it was kinda hot.

The last name Jones came from Grace Jones because how could it not?! She is a bad ass Amazon Goddess and I just love her. She is unapologetically herself and that is always my goal. 

What you value the most? Love and honesty.

How would you like to be remembered? Hopefully as someone who was there for those she cared about, someone who followed through with their goals and brought some joy to the world.


Things that you like


Drinks: water, kombucha, wine.

Cities/places: San Diego, Berlin, Portland, Seattle, Manhattan, Marseilles, Venice, Prague, Malaga, Palm Springs.

Food: organic fruits and veggies, raw dark chocolate, grass fed meat, tacos.

Colors: purple, red, black, blue.

Music: all varieties except country and some pop. 

Fetish and pleasure: blue velvet, leather, fur, latex, boots, gloves, shoes, baths, spa trips… 

Flavors: delicious.

Movies: Wild at Heart, Fire Walk with Me, Romance and Cigarettes, almost everything by John Waters, Donny Darko, Whatever Happened to Baby Jane, Willow, Watcher in the Woods, The Witches, The Last Mistress, Valmont, Moonstruck.

Characters (fiction & historical): George Sand, Anaïs Nin, Edgar Allan Poe, Toni Morrison.

Books: Stranger in a Strangeland, Something Wicked This Way Comes, My Sweet Audrina, Flowers in the Attic, Sleeping Beauty Series, Governess, House of Pain, The Witching Hour series, American Gods.

Fashion: very eclectic, but make it fetish.


Site:
goddesssydney.com

Twitter:
@GoddessSydneyJ

https://linktr.ee/GoddessSydney



Publicado por Luis Alcántar

Me gusta escribir, también el cine, la fotografía y la música. Trabajo como reportero, colaboro en Avenida Digital 3.0: www.avenidadigital30.com y en Soy Barrio: https://soybarrio.com/author/luis-a/

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